Every time I see one of these I think about how it's just depressing that so many people don't want to be involved with the community but can't restrain themselves from coming back. Most people who have been here for a while understand that the community, while it has its positives, can be extremely toxic sometimes. I'm not going to speak for this user as they left for their own reasons, and maybe they're completely unrelated, but I know at least some of the people who do this are jammed in a toxic cycle here and just can't seem to get out. Maybe it's time to do a re-evaluation of some simple things, like the sometimes negative behavior of the community, and make some changes. Think about it: do we really need to have lightning bolts and a "naughty, naughty boy" message as one of our punishment methods? That sounds like a great way to stir people up and cause them to break more rules. This sort of thing has existed on TotalFreedom for years, and I think it's time we all thought it over and actually start to discourage this sort of attitude. I feel like sometimes we go so far nitpicking rules and every tiny staff issue that exists, when none of this would even stir up conflict at all if staff prioritized communication rather than punishment.